Saturday, March 10, 2007

Is She Cheating?

Is She Cheating?

by Peter James

We have all seen or heard it before. Women are always
accusing men of cheating on them. Sometimes they are right,
but most of the times they are wrong. Not only are they
wrong, but it gets tiresome hearing them complain that we
are cheating when we really aren't. It is no surprise to
you, women cheat. They do it just like men do. We would like
to think that we are monogamous, but this really isn't the
case. We are animals, animals with a desire to spread our
genes. Women cheat for different reasons. Us men cheat
because we want to pass on our genes. We want to pass along
our family line.

This is common in the animal world. A woman cheats because
she wants the best partner she can find. She only wants to
bear the child of someone who has the best genes. This is
true in the animal world and it is true in the human world.

Just because we have the ability to walk on two legs and use
our thumbs to hold tools, doesn't mean that we aren't
animals. We still eat meat, hell some of us still eat raw
meat. We go out in nature and hunt and fish. It should be no
surprise that we are still animals.

There are ways for you to tell if your woman is cheating on
you. Don't make the same mistake that she makes... Don't
accuse her of cheating every time she is away from you.
Unless you have some hard proof, hold your breath. Here we
will show you how to tell if she is cheating so you have the
hard proof you need.

We all know that women tend to get more lax regarding the
under clothes they wear after they have been in a long term
relationship. They wear stuff that they feel is comfortable
and not what she thinks will turn you on. If her closet
looks like the outfits that you would see women in a nursing
home have, you already know what I am talking about.

If she suddenly starts to wear sexy panties and bras, that
isn't good news. Sometimes women will wear special under
clothes from time to time to turn you on, but in a long term
relationship that rarely happens. If she is always wearing
hot panties and bras, that is a good sign she is cheating.
If she wears the type of things she wore when she first met
you, I would watch out.

How is your sex life? If she stops having sex with you, then
you know something is up. Use common sense here. If she is
having her period or not feeling well, then of course, you
won't be getting any sex. But, if she has a ton of sex
appeal and she isn't interested for a long period of time,
that is a sign. It is a sign that she is getting her sexual
needs met by someone else. If this is the case, dump her
right away. This not only is wrong to you, but exposes you
to diseases. She might not care about you, but you need to
care about yourself.

Do you feel that your relationship is a long term one? How
does she react to that? Does she blow it off, or even worse
laugh? If she does, there is a good chance she is cheating.
If she is cheating, she has no need for a long term
relationship with you. Why would she need to? After she gets
her fill of you she will dump you for the other guy.

Does she argue about anything and everything? Does she bitch
at you about anything and everything? Does your breathing
get on her nerves? This can be a sign that not only your
relationship is about to end, but she is cheating. She will
treat you like shit because she feels that way about her
cheating. A woman's personality can be as thin as an onion
skin.

Unless you are blind, you should be able to pick up this
one. If your woman is spending more time that usual away
from the house. If she is never home, she has to be some
where. If there is a valid excuse, for example she has to
take care of her ill mother, don't get alarmed. On the other
hand, if there is no reason for her to be gone long periods
of time, then something is up. If it is worth it to you, you
can hire a private investigator to see what she is up to.
Also, a friend might do this for some beer money. Try to get
photos of her with her other lover. This way when she says
that she isn't cheating, you can throw the pictures right
into her face.

If you suspect your girlfriend is cheating on you, sniff her
clothes. If you smell a cologne that isn't like yours or an
unfamiliar scent, something could be up. Make sure she
hasn't been hugging her father or something like that. Take
a whiff, if it smells like a man and there is no reason why
should be smelling that way, she could be cheating.

Men and women both cheat. That maybe a surprise to some, but
not to most of us. No man should put up with this kind of
behavior. You need to dump your cheating woman as fast as
you can. Don't ever take a woman back who has cheated on
you. She will do it again and again. Stand up for yourself,
you are the only one that will do it.

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