Showing posts with label sexual pleasure. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexual pleasure. Show all posts

Saturday, March 10, 2007

How to find the G-spot?

How to find the G-spot?

If you’re looking for the G-spot, you should know that this
famous spot is a small area behind the pubic bone and
surrounding the urethra. This little area is highly
sensitive and the source of much sexual pleasure for some
women, as the penis going inside the vagina rubs against the
G-spot. In order to stimulate the G-Spot, men should
position their penis for a thrust that is opposite to
clitoris stimulation. A penis that curves upward has the
perfect shape to strike the vagina wall in the area around
the G-Spot, while men with downward curvatures may want to
try the doggy style.

And now let’s move on to the practical part of the talk
around the G-spot. I’m sure that you are eager to get right
down to it and get your hands (or at least a finger) on the
little bugger. Some men see this as a challenge and as
something of a duty because they think it their duty to give
their ladies the best possible orgasms. And that simply has
to include a bull’s eye hit on the G-spot during every sex
session. Stimulation of the G-Spot has also seen heavy use
at the hands of sex experts who promote it as a bonus for
happy couples and a true miracle for men who fail to please
their ladies.

One of the things you want to keep an eye on is your lady’s
reaction. As you get closer to the spot, she might
instinctively pull back to avoid the direct stimulation of
that sensitive spot. This could get you off the course and
searching in the wrong area. You also want to begin the
search only after your partner has been properly aroused.
You could even wait until she had an orgasm and take it from
there. The more aroused the woman, the more likely she is to
feel the difference in sensation between the G-spot and the
rest of the vaginal wall. Apply firm pressure and watch your
lady’s reactions. She will guide you to the target.

The G-Spot can also be stimulated using the finger or
tongue. It would require a 1 to 3-inch penetration of the
vagina. No exact distance can be given since it varies from
one woman to another. Experts found that changes in tissue
structure occurring beyond the age of 30 make the G-Spot
easier to reach. This is why some women in their thirties
believe they are experiencing their sexual peak. The fingers
are your best bet anytime, but there are also specially
designed vibrators that can be used for stimulation.
However, it is preferable to find the G-spot first with your
fingers and then start poking around with the vibrator.

And finally, don’t be depressed if you failed to find it on
the first try. Just think that you get more than one chance
to finger your lady at will. Work on it and you will
discover the G-spot sooner or later. On the other hand, if
your lady simply lacks the higher sensitivity in that
particular area, then that’s that. Don’t despair; there are
other ways of dealing with the situation. You can always
rely on the clitoris, the only organ dedicated exclusively
to sexual pleasure, to get your lady over the edge and put a
smile on her face.

Stimulating the G-spot - (AKA detonator button)

Stimulating the G-spot

The G-spot could be compared to a sort of Holy Grail of
sexual pleasure for women, while the men who look for it are
knights errant trying to obtain the highest sexual
satisfaction possible for their ladies. Many couples have
spent hours trying to find the magic pleasure spot, mostly
because there is something inherently alluring about
mastering a way of boosting pleasure beyond the regular
orgasm. And we all know that once you’ve found the hot spot,
the gates of pleasure are wide open.

Any person who’s tried to stimulate the G- spot knows that
it is located on the vagina wall, toward the pelvic bone and
that in order to reach it one must insert a finger and then
bend it upwards. This is by far the easiest way to find the
G-spot and to stimulate it. Once you’re there, you can
either move the finger as though you’re scratching something
(don’t use your nails, though) or in little circles in order
to cover a wider area. Come to think of it, better use two
fingers on the G-spot, to get the most pleasure out of the
whole thing. While you’re at it, you can also use a finger
or your tongue on the clitoris or, if you’re feeling in a
perky mood, put a finger up her anus.

There is not a lot of room for imagination and improvement
when it comes to playing with the G-spot. The man can use
his fingers, some sex toys or his penis, while the woman can
stimulate herself using her fingers or toys. Of course, the
sex toys must be appropriate for this activity, which means
that you need a dildo or vibrator with a hooked or bent tip
that makes it easier to reach the G-spot. Don’t move the toy
around too much and don’t try to make circles with the tip.
Toys are harder to use than fingers, so try to move the tip
back and forward over the spot, while adding a little
pressure. Your partner will certainly let you know if what
you do feels good or not.

The playful lover knows that he can also reach the G-spot
with his penis, although the thing is a bit trickier than
just moving a finger around. You and your lady must try a
couple of different positions in order to find those that
allow you to give the G-spot a good rubbing. Doggy style
comes to mind, because the penis can rub against that
sensitive patch of flesh both when going in and when pulling
out. Of course, the positions featuring the woman on top are
also very good because the lady can adjust the angle of
insertion to make sure that the penis takes the correct
route.

So there you have them, the three options for the bold
lovers who are not content with regular sex, but are
interested in discovering new ways of pleasing each other.
And there’s probably no better way of pleasing a woman that
full stimulation of both the G-spot and the clitoris at the
same time. Men should not be ashamed to ask the ladies to
help them locate the G-spot, especially since the ladies
will certainly be eager to help. After all, it’s in their
best interest.