Showing posts with label vagina. Show all posts
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Saturday, March 10, 2007

Oral sex techniques

Oral sex techniques

The vagina is a sort of cave of wonders for most men. This organ that is so different from the penis in its physical shape has always been one of the most powerful turn-ons for men and also a constant source of attraction. Men simply can’t help being curious about it and also about the many techniques they can use on it to give pleasure. Fingers, toys, tongue, lips and penis, nearly all the small parts of our bodies that we can move at all have been used to please women.

And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn’t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman; just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can’t hurt you.

The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.

Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.

Oral sex goes hand in hand with G-spot or anal stimulation. It’s perfectly natural that while your tongue is playing with the clitoris or tracing the labia, your fingers should wonder around. So stick a finger or two inside her vagina (the palm of your hand must face up), a couple of inches from the opening. Then move your fingers as if you’re making the “come hither” sign on the front wall of the vagina. If you’re on target, you should feel a little bump in the wall and your lady should let out a cry of delight.

Alternatively, you can stick a finger inside her anus and introduce her to the exotic pleasure from beyond the Great Wall of the Vagina. Use lubrication on your finger and on her anus. Don’t think you’re man enough to go in dry, because you’ll only get a kick in the face. If you do it right, there’ll be heaven in store for you and more.

One of the most common licking techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.

How to find the G-spot?

How to find the G-spot?

If you’re looking for the G-spot, you should know that this
famous spot is a small area behind the pubic bone and
surrounding the urethra. This little area is highly
sensitive and the source of much sexual pleasure for some
women, as the penis going inside the vagina rubs against the
G-spot. In order to stimulate the G-Spot, men should
position their penis for a thrust that is opposite to
clitoris stimulation. A penis that curves upward has the
perfect shape to strike the vagina wall in the area around
the G-Spot, while men with downward curvatures may want to
try the doggy style.

And now let’s move on to the practical part of the talk
around the G-spot. I’m sure that you are eager to get right
down to it and get your hands (or at least a finger) on the
little bugger. Some men see this as a challenge and as
something of a duty because they think it their duty to give
their ladies the best possible orgasms. And that simply has
to include a bull’s eye hit on the G-spot during every sex
session. Stimulation of the G-Spot has also seen heavy use
at the hands of sex experts who promote it as a bonus for
happy couples and a true miracle for men who fail to please
their ladies.

One of the things you want to keep an eye on is your lady’s
reaction. As you get closer to the spot, she might
instinctively pull back to avoid the direct stimulation of
that sensitive spot. This could get you off the course and
searching in the wrong area. You also want to begin the
search only after your partner has been properly aroused.
You could even wait until she had an orgasm and take it from
there. The more aroused the woman, the more likely she is to
feel the difference in sensation between the G-spot and the
rest of the vaginal wall. Apply firm pressure and watch your
lady’s reactions. She will guide you to the target.

The G-Spot can also be stimulated using the finger or
tongue. It would require a 1 to 3-inch penetration of the
vagina. No exact distance can be given since it varies from
one woman to another. Experts found that changes in tissue
structure occurring beyond the age of 30 make the G-Spot
easier to reach. This is why some women in their thirties
believe they are experiencing their sexual peak. The fingers
are your best bet anytime, but there are also specially
designed vibrators that can be used for stimulation.
However, it is preferable to find the G-spot first with your
fingers and then start poking around with the vibrator.

And finally, don’t be depressed if you failed to find it on
the first try. Just think that you get more than one chance
to finger your lady at will. Work on it and you will
discover the G-spot sooner or later. On the other hand, if
your lady simply lacks the higher sensitivity in that
particular area, then that’s that. Don’t despair; there are
other ways of dealing with the situation. You can always
rely on the clitoris, the only organ dedicated exclusively
to sexual pleasure, to get your lady over the edge and put a
smile on her face.