How To Have Better Oral Sex

How To Have Better Oral Sex


We like to think that a woman is born knowing how to give
great oral sex. We think that they must take notes while
watching porn movies. This isn't always the case.

In this article we will give you suggestions on how to
improve her oral sex skills.

Cool that Tool


Using ice is a great thing. You would think that something
cold on your penis would make it go limp, but it does the
opposite of this. It will make the experience more
enjoyable.

Two hands For Beginers

Sometimes women don't use their hands enough. They think
that it is all in the mouth. Tell her to rub and squeeze
your testicles while she goes down on you. Your testicles
do not get touched very often so when they are - WOW! The
feeling is amazing!!!

Battrrrr Up!

Tell her to grip your penis like a baseball bat and stroke
along in rhythm as she goes down on you. This will drive
you crazy!

A Little slip of the Tongue!

Nothing feels better than a little tongue magic! Tell her
to be creative with her tongue. Tell her to flick it
against the head and to lick your penis like a popsicle.
Also, tell her to suck and lick your testicles. If you are
a brave man, tell her to lick your anus while she
masturbates you. You will love this.

There is a postion for you

We think that only positions refer to sex. Don't let
yourself get into this one track mind. Her working your
cock can feel terrific in many positions.

Have her suck your member while you are sitting.

This makes for an interesting experience.

Dem ears ain't handles!


our boner will be straight up
and paying attention to her. Have her sit in a chair while
you stand next to her. This is a great position. I love
holding on the back of my women's head as she sucks me off.
Sometimes I get carried away and I hold onto her ears. She
always lets me know that her ears aren't handles.

Lay Back Take it like a Man!

Laying down. This is by far the best method of receiving
oral sex. This is my favorite. This is a no brainer
really. If you are laying down then you are going to be
relaxed as she goes down on you. There is nothing more
relaxing than a hot babe with her face in your crotch.

Your anus is not a Planet!

I know that most men are very uneasy about their anus. I
think this is because men think that if they are aroused by
stimulation to the anus that they are gay. Get that out
of your head!

How could you be gay if a WOMAN is stimulating your anus??

There are many ways that she can stimulate your anus and
more importantly your prostate gland while performing oral
sex.

She can use her finger of course, she can also use a sex
toy.

I don't suggest that you allow her to stick foreign objects
in your ass. Don't try to stick the dog up there, only
small things that will feel good.

She swallows a Python!

Tell her to look into your eyes as she sucks you into the
cosmos. This can get a great turn on. Watch her look up at
you as she swallows your penis like a hungry snake.



Here are some things your woman should NOT do.

Don't use toothpaste. It may taste good on the toothbrush,
but keep it far away from your penis. Not only can this
burn, but it will feel gritty on your penis. Unless you
like the feeling of sand on your penis, toothpaste isn't for
you.

Don't allow your woman to use Ben Gay or any type of rub
like this. It will burn like hell and you will think you
are about to die. Keep this stuff as far away from your
dick as you can.

Using flavored massage oil can be just like using Ben Gay.
It can burn like hell and bother you to no end. I would
suggest you stay away from this.

take out those Teeth!

I have never understood it, but some women think that biting
a penis feels good. Never suggest that she bites your
penis. If she is hungry, she might bite it off!

Seriously, its not worth the risk.

There is nothing wrong with telling your woman that her oral
sex isn't up to par. If she is the sensitive type, make
sure you tell her nicely.

I would suggest that you be experimental with each other and
have great communication in bed. This will help you get
those better blow jobs and you will be one happy man.

Oral sex techniques

Oral sex techniques

The vagina is a sort of cave of wonders for most men. This organ that is so different from the penis in its physical shape has always been one of the most powerful turn-ons for men and also a constant source of attraction. Men simply can’t help being curious about it and also about the many techniques they can use on it to give pleasure. Fingers, toys, tongue, lips and penis, nearly all the small parts of our bodies that we can move at all have been used to please women.

And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn’t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman; just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can’t hurt you.

The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.

Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.

Oral sex goes hand in hand with G-spot or anal stimulation. It’s perfectly natural that while your tongue is playing with the clitoris or tracing the labia, your fingers should wonder around. So stick a finger or two inside her vagina (the palm of your hand must face up), a couple of inches from the opening. Then move your fingers as if you’re making the “come hither” sign on the front wall of the vagina. If you’re on target, you should feel a little bump in the wall and your lady should let out a cry of delight.

Alternatively, you can stick a finger inside her anus and introduce her to the exotic pleasure from beyond the Great Wall of the Vagina. Use lubrication on your finger and on her anus. Don’t think you’re man enough to go in dry, because you’ll only get a kick in the face. If you do it right, there’ll be heaven in store for you and more.

One of the most common licking techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.

Common Male Sexual Worries

Common Male Sexual Worries

You have no idea how many men spend a lot of time worrying
about sex and their ability to perform. It must be of the
biggest issues in the life of a man and it affects his
general disposition in a positive or negative manner. A man
tormented by anxiety is either a man whose sex life is not
very satisfying or who thinks that he does something wrong.
It doesn’t matter if the partner is not complaining, the man
still feels inadequate. Some men actually spend a lot of
time worrying about this or that and no amount of
reassurance could put their minds at ease.

The top problem of any man who likes sex and wants to have
as much as possible is the classic “Am I good enough?”. This
question can mean several things, depending on what the
individual sees as a liability. It could mean “Am I big
enough?” if the man in question has an average-sized or
small penis. It could mean “Am I attentive enough?” for the
worried lover who likes to get the dining and foreplay part
right. It could also mean “Am I really giving her an
orgasm?”. One of the big unanswered questions for men is
whether women fake it. And how often?

Near the top of the tree lies the eternal question to which
millions of frustrated men have been trying to find an
answer: “Does size matter or not?”. Once more we are faced
with the unenviable task of saying that there is no
definitive answer to this question. It all depends on the
woman and what she likes or dislikes. Some women think a
6-inch penis is big enough. Some don’t care one way or
another as long as the penis is not too small. However,
there is no definition set in stone for “too small”.

“I’m still a virgin. HELP!!!!”. Don’t give in to despair
because you don’t need any help, just some common sense.
There is no deadline for losing the virginity. And you
certainly should not take unnecessary risks just because you
simply have to have sex with someone in order to avoid being
labeled a loser. Have some patience, it will happen sooner
or later and it’s far better to save the first time for
somebody special, than to visit the VD ward or fall in love
with a person that doesn’t care for you.

Then we have a whole bunch of problems that belong to men
who are less experienced when it comes to sex. “How do I
find the clitoris?” is a common question among the men who
rely on intercourse to carry the session and are too
embarrassed or too grossed up to go and explore the genital
area. Take heart, boys, there is nothing to be embarrassed
about. Nature has made us wonderful beings and worthy of
each other’s respect. And by the way, giving oral sex can be
a fantastic experience.

Which leads us to the next big worry. This one can be summed
up with the nice question almost any man has asked at one
time or another: “How can I tell if she’s had an orgasm?”.
Unfortunately for the men, there is no way of knowing for
sure whether the lady has had an orgasm or has acquired
considerable skill at faking it. If the issue is really
bugging you, then try and discuss it openly with your
partner. However, unless you or the partner are dissatisfied
with your performance, you should leave well enough alone.

“She’s more experienced than me! What do I do?”. Bask in the
moment, of course. If she is indeed more experienced than
you, ask her to teach you all the tricks (she’ll be tickled
pink by the idea), then start improvising on the knowledge.
Pretty soon you’ll have her amazed and you’ll be in control,
if that’s what you want. Alternatively, you could slowly
sharpen your skills, while enjoying every minute of pleasure
from a woman who really knows how to take care of a man.

And, finally, we have another series of situations that make
men uncomfortable: “She not ready for sex / anal sex / oral
sex / fantasies”. Guys, rushing in or being pushy about
something as intimate and as important as sex is the worst
possible approach. Keep your hormones in check and help her
overcome her fears or worries. If you don’t care for the
soft approach, then leave the girls alone and find somebody
else. Think about the day when all your waiting will pay off
and she will say “Yes”. That’s something worth waiting for.