Oral sex techniques

Oral sex techniques

The vagina is a sort of cave of wonders for most men. This organ that is so different from the penis in its physical shape has always been one of the most powerful turn-ons for men and also a constant source of attraction. Men simply can’t help being curious about it and also about the many techniques they can use on it to give pleasure. Fingers, toys, tongue, lips and penis, nearly all the small parts of our bodies that we can move at all have been used to please women.

And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn’t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman; just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can’t hurt you.

The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.

Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.

Oral sex goes hand in hand with G-spot or anal stimulation. It’s perfectly natural that while your tongue is playing with the clitoris or tracing the labia, your fingers should wonder around. So stick a finger or two inside her vagina (the palm of your hand must face up), a couple of inches from the opening. Then move your fingers as if you’re making the “come hither” sign on the front wall of the vagina. If you’re on target, you should feel a little bump in the wall and your lady should let out a cry of delight.

Alternatively, you can stick a finger inside her anus and introduce her to the exotic pleasure from beyond the Great Wall of the Vagina. Use lubrication on your finger and on her anus. Don’t think you’re man enough to go in dry, because you’ll only get a kick in the face. If you do it right, there’ll be heaven in store for you and more.

One of the most common licking techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.

How to find the G-spot?

How to find the G-spot?

If you’re looking for the G-spot, you should know that this
famous spot is a small area behind the pubic bone and
surrounding the urethra. This little area is highly
sensitive and the source of much sexual pleasure for some
women, as the penis going inside the vagina rubs against the
G-spot. In order to stimulate the G-Spot, men should
position their penis for a thrust that is opposite to
clitoris stimulation. A penis that curves upward has the
perfect shape to strike the vagina wall in the area around
the G-Spot, while men with downward curvatures may want to
try the doggy style.

And now let’s move on to the practical part of the talk
around the G-spot. I’m sure that you are eager to get right
down to it and get your hands (or at least a finger) on the
little bugger. Some men see this as a challenge and as
something of a duty because they think it their duty to give
their ladies the best possible orgasms. And that simply has
to include a bull’s eye hit on the G-spot during every sex
session. Stimulation of the G-Spot has also seen heavy use
at the hands of sex experts who promote it as a bonus for
happy couples and a true miracle for men who fail to please
their ladies.

One of the things you want to keep an eye on is your lady’s
reaction. As you get closer to the spot, she might
instinctively pull back to avoid the direct stimulation of
that sensitive spot. This could get you off the course and
searching in the wrong area. You also want to begin the
search only after your partner has been properly aroused.
You could even wait until she had an orgasm and take it from
there. The more aroused the woman, the more likely she is to
feel the difference in sensation between the G-spot and the
rest of the vaginal wall. Apply firm pressure and watch your
lady’s reactions. She will guide you to the target.

The G-Spot can also be stimulated using the finger or
tongue. It would require a 1 to 3-inch penetration of the
vagina. No exact distance can be given since it varies from
one woman to another. Experts found that changes in tissue
structure occurring beyond the age of 30 make the G-Spot
easier to reach. This is why some women in their thirties
believe they are experiencing their sexual peak. The fingers
are your best bet anytime, but there are also specially
designed vibrators that can be used for stimulation.
However, it is preferable to find the G-spot first with your
fingers and then start poking around with the vibrator.

And finally, don’t be depressed if you failed to find it on
the first try. Just think that you get more than one chance
to finger your lady at will. Work on it and you will
discover the G-spot sooner or later. On the other hand, if
your lady simply lacks the higher sensitivity in that
particular area, then that’s that. Don’t despair; there are
other ways of dealing with the situation. You can always
rely on the clitoris, the only organ dedicated exclusively
to sexual pleasure, to get your lady over the edge and put a
smile on her face.

Stimulating the G-spot - (AKA detonator button)

Stimulating the G-spot

The G-spot could be compared to a sort of Holy Grail of
sexual pleasure for women, while the men who look for it are
knights errant trying to obtain the highest sexual
satisfaction possible for their ladies. Many couples have
spent hours trying to find the magic pleasure spot, mostly
because there is something inherently alluring about
mastering a way of boosting pleasure beyond the regular
orgasm. And we all know that once you’ve found the hot spot,
the gates of pleasure are wide open.

Any person who’s tried to stimulate the G- spot knows that
it is located on the vagina wall, toward the pelvic bone and
that in order to reach it one must insert a finger and then
bend it upwards. This is by far the easiest way to find the
G-spot and to stimulate it. Once you’re there, you can
either move the finger as though you’re scratching something
(don’t use your nails, though) or in little circles in order
to cover a wider area. Come to think of it, better use two
fingers on the G-spot, to get the most pleasure out of the
whole thing. While you’re at it, you can also use a finger
or your tongue on the clitoris or, if you’re feeling in a
perky mood, put a finger up her anus.

There is not a lot of room for imagination and improvement
when it comes to playing with the G-spot. The man can use
his fingers, some sex toys or his penis, while the woman can
stimulate herself using her fingers or toys. Of course, the
sex toys must be appropriate for this activity, which means
that you need a dildo or vibrator with a hooked or bent tip
that makes it easier to reach the G-spot. Don’t move the toy
around too much and don’t try to make circles with the tip.
Toys are harder to use than fingers, so try to move the tip
back and forward over the spot, while adding a little
pressure. Your partner will certainly let you know if what
you do feels good or not.

The playful lover knows that he can also reach the G-spot
with his penis, although the thing is a bit trickier than
just moving a finger around. You and your lady must try a
couple of different positions in order to find those that
allow you to give the G-spot a good rubbing. Doggy style
comes to mind, because the penis can rub against that
sensitive patch of flesh both when going in and when pulling
out. Of course, the positions featuring the woman on top are
also very good because the lady can adjust the angle of
insertion to make sure that the penis takes the correct
route.

So there you have them, the three options for the bold
lovers who are not content with regular sex, but are
interested in discovering new ways of pleasing each other.
And there’s probably no better way of pleasing a woman that
full stimulation of both the G-spot and the clitoris at the
same time. Men should not be ashamed to ask the ladies to
help them locate the G-spot, especially since the ladies
will certainly be eager to help. After all, it’s in their
best interest.

Common Male Sexual Worries

Common Male Sexual Worries

You have no idea how many men spend a lot of time worrying
about sex and their ability to perform. It must be of the
biggest issues in the life of a man and it affects his
general disposition in a positive or negative manner. A man
tormented by anxiety is either a man whose sex life is not
very satisfying or who thinks that he does something wrong.
It doesn’t matter if the partner is not complaining, the man
still feels inadequate. Some men actually spend a lot of
time worrying about this or that and no amount of
reassurance could put their minds at ease.

The top problem of any man who likes sex and wants to have
as much as possible is the classic “Am I good enough?”. This
question can mean several things, depending on what the
individual sees as a liability. It could mean “Am I big
enough?” if the man in question has an average-sized or
small penis. It could mean “Am I attentive enough?” for the
worried lover who likes to get the dining and foreplay part
right. It could also mean “Am I really giving her an
orgasm?”. One of the big unanswered questions for men is
whether women fake it. And how often?

Near the top of the tree lies the eternal question to which
millions of frustrated men have been trying to find an
answer: “Does size matter or not?”. Once more we are faced
with the unenviable task of saying that there is no
definitive answer to this question. It all depends on the
woman and what she likes or dislikes. Some women think a
6-inch penis is big enough. Some don’t care one way or
another as long as the penis is not too small. However,
there is no definition set in stone for “too small”.

“I’m still a virgin. HELP!!!!”. Don’t give in to despair
because you don’t need any help, just some common sense.
There is no deadline for losing the virginity. And you
certainly should not take unnecessary risks just because you
simply have to have sex with someone in order to avoid being
labeled a loser. Have some patience, it will happen sooner
or later and it’s far better to save the first time for
somebody special, than to visit the VD ward or fall in love
with a person that doesn’t care for you.

Then we have a whole bunch of problems that belong to men
who are less experienced when it comes to sex. “How do I
find the clitoris?” is a common question among the men who
rely on intercourse to carry the session and are too
embarrassed or too grossed up to go and explore the genital
area. Take heart, boys, there is nothing to be embarrassed
about. Nature has made us wonderful beings and worthy of
each other’s respect. And by the way, giving oral sex can be
a fantastic experience.

Which leads us to the next big worry. This one can be summed
up with the nice question almost any man has asked at one
time or another: “How can I tell if she’s had an orgasm?”.
Unfortunately for the men, there is no way of knowing for
sure whether the lady has had an orgasm or has acquired
considerable skill at faking it. If the issue is really
bugging you, then try and discuss it openly with your
partner. However, unless you or the partner are dissatisfied
with your performance, you should leave well enough alone.

“She’s more experienced than me! What do I do?”. Bask in the
moment, of course. If she is indeed more experienced than
you, ask her to teach you all the tricks (she’ll be tickled
pink by the idea), then start improvising on the knowledge.
Pretty soon you’ll have her amazed and you’ll be in control,
if that’s what you want. Alternatively, you could slowly
sharpen your skills, while enjoying every minute of pleasure
from a woman who really knows how to take care of a man.

And, finally, we have another series of situations that make
men uncomfortable: “She not ready for sex / anal sex / oral
sex / fantasies”. Guys, rushing in or being pushy about
something as intimate and as important as sex is the worst
possible approach. Keep your hormones in check and help her
overcome her fears or worries. If you don’t care for the
soft approach, then leave the girls alone and find somebody
else. Think about the day when all your waiting will pay off
and she will say “Yes”. That’s something worth waiting for.

Is She Faking Her orgasm ?

Is She Faking Her orgasm ?

Studies show that 70% of women are faking orgasms.

That means, chances are, your woman is too. IF she is faking
then obviously you are doing something wrong.

You could just be making her feel uncomfortable due to the
fact she knows that you are waiting for her to scream in
ecstasy. I will tell you how you can spot a faked orgasm.

First you have to understand how your woman achieves an
orgasm.

Most women will achieve an orgasm with clitoral stimulation,
while others need to have their G spot worked. Usually
women who need their G spot fancied, won't be able to have
an orgasm if you stimulate their clitoris. This can be true
with women who need to have their clitoris stimulated to
have an orgasm.

I had one girlfriend that couldn't have an orgasm unless
her clitoris was stimulated.

We could have sex for an hour and if I didn't stimulated her
clitoris, she wouldn't get off.

To know if your woman is faking, you need to know what
makes her cum. It is that simple. If you are doing
something that goes against your experiences and she cums,
then chances are she is faking it.

If you are trying something new and she has an orgasm, there
is a good chance she is faking it.

Keep that in mind while you observe her. There are plenty
of ways to tell if your woman is faking it.

Mechanical moaning.

If she is moaning like what you would hear on a porn movie,
chances are she is faking it. Her noises don't match what
is going on. If you are performing oral sex and you take a
break for a second and she is still moaning, chances are she
is faking it. It is like someone who keeps on dancing after
you turn the radio off.

You don't feel her PC muscle gripping your penis. If she is
about to orgasm or having an orgasm, this will go nuts. You
will be able to feel it.

Her breathing. If she is breathing heavy while she has an
orgasm, she will continue it for a little while. If she can
turn it off like a switch, she is probably faking it.

These things doesn't mean that she is faking it for certain.
She might just actually be like this. If she does all of
these things though, I would assume she is faking.

Give her an Emmy award after you have sex and see how she
reacts.

Why is she faking it?

Well, once you understand why, you might be surprised.
Well, maybe not too surprised if you have a brain instead of
like a bunch of cheese in your head like some guys.

Here is some reasons why she might fake it. She may not
have ever had an orgasm before.

Now, this might sound a little weird but it does happen in
women. I have known several women who have never had an
orgasm. I always try to convience them that I can give them
one, but I never seem to score with these kind of chicks.

She gets sore really fast.

This could be because of her body type or because she
doesn't produce enough lube. Some women have very thin
vaginal walls.

She thinks that it is so important to you. She is willing to
fake it JUST FOR YOU! This is why you don't want to put
too much pressure on the topic. To me if you do, you are
forcing her to lie to you.

How can you stop her from faking?

You can be open and keep a direct line of conversation
flowing. This means you talk about what makes her have an
orgasm. You try to understand what you can do so she
doesn't have to fake it. If you are kind and gentle with
her, she will open up and tell you what you need to do.